Does that mean the VNG mods would be able to see that ML too? Great ideia...
You could make it clear that you'd like the ml kept between yourself and the member of staff you send it to if you're worried about it being leaked although that'd make closing a report take a little longer.
There’s no rule about abusing the reporting system?
As I explained in your PM there's a warning before you submit a report:
"Please note: The moderator will be made aware of the link to the page you are reporting.
This form is to be used ONLY for reporting objectionable content and is not to be used as a method of communicating with moderators for other reasons."